New Year, New Goals
January is a time to think about goals in the New Year! Check out our latest Lunch and Learn on the Facebook Client Club for great strategies for setting and succeeding at goals. https://www.facebook.com/sarah.phillips.948011/videos/10218775726657478/
The holidays are hectic and full of stress, but try not to neglect your mental health. Try one of our relaxing guided meditations when you are feeling overwhelmed:
Do you feel helpless?
This month Professional and Personal Wellness has focused on Mental Health for the monthly topic. Make sure you check out the Newsletter and the monthly educational presentation for excellent information regarding Depression.
What I would like to talk about is a condition called “learned helplessness”. Learned helpless is defined as the general belief that one has little or no control over their situation. It can result in persistent feelings of powerlessness, and it can be an underlying cause of depression. I see this condition a lot with employees who feel stuck in their job. No matter what they do, they cannot get ahead both financially and career wise. Often I hear: “all I do is work, eat and sleep” with little or no time, energy and money to do anything else. In my mind the worse of the systems of learned helplessness is the feeling of “giving up” and just living life going through the motions!
What can be done? I believe it starts with making small changes. Break the routine, even if it is driving home via a different route. Do something you enjoy every day, even if it is just for a minute or two. Set small obtainable goals to change and monitor them. Try new things, talk to different people.
Learned helplessness did not happen all at once. Learning that you are not helpless will also take time. Small steps over a long time make a huge difference. Consider talk to others or a trained professional.
Helpless is no way to live your life
The holidays are near and eating healthy is going to become trickier than ever. Especially with all the holiday get togethers, treats, and candies everywhere. Check out this blog from our nutritionist for tips and tricks for surving the holidays.
We are focusing on the effects of sugar this month as well. Cutting back on sugar in your everyday diet means that you can indulge in those treats with a lot less guilt too!
Everyday I'm Shuffling
Shuffleboard is a game that has been, according to records, enjoyed dating back to the 15th century by the old and poor alike. Its simple base rules made it recognizable by soldiers and royalty alike, easy to set up with crude or fancy materials, and the appeal universal between all abilities and education. Then, according to shuffleboard.net, “World War II opened the "Swinging Forties" and shuffleboard really came into its own. The intrinsic appeal of the game – skill, diversity, competitiveness, availability to young and old, strong and disabled, the serious game, the fun game, offered the kind of release needed in those turbulent years.”
The game of shuffleboard tends to bring to mind cruise ships and retirement homes and, because of its low physical fitness requirements, the game is often associated with the elderly. But that’s changed in a world where millennials (25-39 year olds) have an especially large love for games. Shuffleboard is becoming increasingly popular among younger crowds. The table version is more and more common in bars and breweries, enjoyed by the same people that enjoy the darts and billiards sections. I even played one in an escape room lobby a few months back. Its enjoyment factor is not at all limited by age or ability.
The rules are very similar to any scoring games, with variations in point calculation, penalties, etc. If you want to know the exact rules, check out this link https://www.rulesofsport.com/sports/shuffleboard.html. Yet while they rules and play of shuffleboard are simple, mastering the game is a matter of technical skill and intense strategy. From primarily defense to primarily offensive, you can learn a lot about a person by how they play shuffleboard. While there is a certain amount of civility expected in this historic game, I’ve yet to see a match where knocking your opponent into the kitchen (resulting in negative 10 points) didn’t result in (mostly) friendly mocking and “stirring the pot” motions. Off course, any game is as competitive as you want to make it, I just happen to enjoy playing with very competitive people.
I’m currently in a shuffleboard league now, where the ages range from late twenties to eighties. Everyone has a great time and we always leave with a smile. It’s the perfect way to pass the time, get outside (for floor shuffleboard), and meet new people. If you haven’t tried it yet, stop shuffling your feet and try it!